Hey Astime, yep, you read right, my h was/is/who knows/ still seeing his girlfriend from 30 years ago. Get this - they were together 5 years - ages 15 - 20. She was living in his house as her family had problems. They were engaged. While living in his house, she cheated on him with his best friend.
Yep, that's who I'd call if I was having an MLC. She lives 8 hours away by car. (H travels a lot for business). She was/is married. And now for the best part - H is living with her 72 year old mother in our state because he cant afford an apartment because of all the debt he put us in.
How's that for pathetic? By the way, regarding your x - that sucks when that happens - you leave your h for a man in jail thinking he is getting out - even more pathetic.