Trusting, It sounds as if you are moving out of the "mean mommy" role, in his eyes.

It seems that many of us are strong and competent women, and Hs saw us as Mommy rather than partner.

Your H has not detached from you if he feels the need to explain himself, but it sounds as if he is getting there.

I think mine is in a similar vein, but still just as attached to OW.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D