not to sound depressing, but what makes you think it's only an emotional affair? are you sure that's all it is? i went through the exact same thing. discovered calls, confronted her, she says only a friend. well, today she's moving a block and a half from "friend" in a town 45 minutes from me.
i totally hope for you that's all it is. i'm just playing devil's advocate and wondering what evidence you have that's all it is. good luck.
M35 H33 S4 S7 M6 T11 found out about OM 03/11/09 she left 04/11/09 she filed D 04/21/09