What exact proof do I need? I just checked our cell phone bills for the first time in 5 months and it shows that jan to feb there were about 14 calls...feb to mar there were 18 calls,mar to apr there were 20 calls and end of april to the end of may there were 12 calls. Now in the end of april is when I started Divorce busting and coaching so I don't know if that is what worked so...Here is the proof...I have a counseling session with the therapist and her on Thurs and my gut says not to bring this up and keep it positive....But when in the process is this brought up?