he was back, i think

[lola485]

Good for you on not answering! I think I may have missed earlier what your relationship is with OW. Was she a friend? I ask because I can't imagine talking to my h's ow on the phone. I knew her, but was not friends with her. We have had a few emails back and forth, few and far between and they weren't very nice. I'm pretty sure I called her bad names, LOL! You do sound like you're doing a little better. Remember...baby steps. The financial thing sounds like a nightmare. But at least like you said, his debts are not in your name. I'm really unclear on the laws concerning that sort of thing tho, and I know they differ by state. Might be a good idea to get legal advice just so you know where you stand, especially concerning the business. One thing I've read about is that prepaid legal thing. Someone on here might have more info concerning that. I just want to make sure you and your child are taken care of. Don't let sympathy for him cloud your judgement where that's concerned. Let me know how you're doing, I'm thinking of you!