We talked and have decided that we are just going to relax and take it slow. Maybe at the end of this summer we can discuss me moving to him, or him moving here if he decides to get out of the coast guard.

I thought about asking him to read some of the books, but Im not sure which one. Im just not sure how to do this. Thanks for reminding me to not get sucked in. I need to really take that to heart.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...