he was back, i think

[mdoodles]

thanks guys. i appreciate it.

i pulled myself together, my dad had taken my son out for a few hours and when he got home, i took him to the movies and out for dinner. its something.

Karen, u are right, bankrupt is one way to put it! my husband ran up over $100,000 in credit card debt as of last year. before he met her, we only ever used amex. my home is in foreclosure.

the person i married who wrote down every penny he ever made since he was 14 is not here now. he stopped even opening his bills or doing his check book.

i had taken over handling the mail and organizing the bills, which is crazy if u knew my husband!

i organized his credit card into a spreadsheet and handled the collection angencies when they called. i sent out dispute letters for him.

he started to get a grip, started making settlements on his debt and we opened the business. i really thought he would stay sane.

guess not.

so now he will need a new job, and still has his debt (which thankfully is not in my name).

i know the ow has to deal with this ugly version of him, his moods and lack of funds. she told me the other day on the phone, that she does not need this and does not need to be treated this way.

clearly not paradise.

but it hurts. and it will for a while.

he called me 2 times while we were at the movies. i did not answer.