Emotional affair wife won't admit

[lola485]

I hope others with more experience will come along soon, but all I can say is from my own experience, if you don't have proof I don't know that I would confront her. You said you have been reading dr and doing coaching and that it seems to be working slowly. What positive changes have you seen? Slow progress is fine, it's probably what's expected. If there really is progress confronting her about something that really may not be happening could torpedo your efforts so far.