funny about the back yard being an issue. We're in fire country here with tons of beautiful trees but not far from big forests and mountains and canyons that do catch on fire nearly every year....So we are not supposed to have a lot of brush collecting....Yard work was theraeutic for h EXCEPT he'd often NOT finish it. He'd chop a BIG tree down and then ooops, run out of time for the rest of it and then he'd be gone and I'd stare at a huge tree on the lawn FOR MONTHS b/c on the weekends when he was home he was not in the mood to chop up a tree... until I had to pay someone to chop it up and haul it away and USUALLY h would complain about the expense....seriously! Have had same problem now with the corner of the yard which is hungrily waiting an ember so it can explode in fury for being ignored too long...

but (sigh) h is with his mom and yeah, she's getting closer to death by the week. Can't beaOTCH about that now. Soooo YOUR IDEA about the chipper thing is sounding really good. Need to go read up on it. What do I really need to rent or borrow to do it, etc.

Yeah I read Wild at Heart too, and read a book called "Before the Last Goodbye" I think. Might be what you are reading?? Anyhow, take care and in TIME, your h will regret this. But that does not mean he'll be or want to be the man you need. Just that I KNOW there is no way the course of action he is engaged in now, is a good one. Oh well.

BACK TO YOU....
(( ))
j-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change