Thanks for posting and your wishes. I had quite a nice week-end so far.
I sorted out the problem with my neighbour. However, since there are no shrubs between us at the moment, I did what he did to me: I went across into their garden and asked them something. I have never done it before but since they have done it to me recently and I didn't like it I thought I'd show them how it feels. So hopefully, they will get the message.
I didn't meet the "hiker" on Thursday since the weather was not good enough to go hiking. So we postponed it.
On Thursday evening a jazz concert was pointed out to me by somebody who was supposed to meet me. I went with one of my GFs. The concert was terrible and the guy was not there either. So we left and went to our "regular" place where there was super Latino music which we enjoyed a lot. On Friday evening there was another jazz band playing which was super.
Today we had our family gathering which was lovely. The weather was also nice but unfortunately quite windy and cool. But we were still able to sit outdoors in a sheltered place. In the evening I went on my own to a live performance of some bands which was not terribly good. - So all in all I had a good time.
I had some interesting correspondence from my XH recently. After I thanked him for his help he replied that where he lives some people believe that if you do something good to somebody you will be rewarded in your next life. This is a comfort to them and they are not as afraid of death as he is.
I agreed with him and wrote that at least that religion made him behave a bit nicer towards me. He wrote back that he didn't convert to that religion and it was not the reason why he helped me. (However, he did not mention why he helped me.) He has been "still" since.
