I'm almost 4 years into this situation and she only started warming up to me for the last 11 months. It's to late for me because I no longer desire her, we are divorced, but at least I'm getting the respect from her I think I deserve. If not as a husband, friend, and lover, at least as a human being and the Father of her only child. That's a boatload more of what I was getting from her in the past. I'm not one to say.. 'told you so', but it's sure sweet vindication.
It will come in time. It always seems to in one form or another (divorced or not). To much history together. They do eventually pull their heads out just like we pulled ours out. It's just to late for some of us by the time that happens.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
