This is the most trying time in my life. I am feeling so much pain my wife told me back in the beginning of April that she has become emotionally detached from me and she has denied that anyone else is involved even to this day. I have been blindsided by this and It is so painful. I have been reading divorce remedy and doing the coaching. It seems to be working very slowly but what perplexes me is that the continued denial that she is involved emotionally with someone else. I checked the cell phone records for the last 5 months and man am I a fool. She has talked to her coworker many times. But I have noticed that this past month the phone calls have almost cut in half. I am hopeful that this is a positive sign that everything I am doing is working. I know this co worker also and I am unsure whether speaking to him would help or hinder my situation? And when in the process do I discuss the emotional infidelity with her or do I wait for her to bring it up and if she does not then should I let it go? We are going to counseling too and I am not sure it is helping. She won't come clean about it in counseling either. I don't know what to do except leave it alone I guess and do things for myself.
