Hello all, back from my trip down the rabbit hole... You are all right of course and any empathy/sympathy I felt was entirely short lived I assure you.

First and foremost she knew what she was getting into and went ahead and did it anyway. Actions/Consequences 101...I let myself get sucked in and that was not a good thing. I am better now and see it for what it truly is...a desperate attempt by her to create more harm and damage and ultimately get what she wants. If she cant get what she wants from him, then she will mindf*ck me so I will just walk away. Its all about winning for her and that is a game I simply do not choose to participate in.

So no worries all, I have nothing further to say to her, but you would have been proud of me a couple of times because there were some hard truths from me to her as well. I got my point across & was able to give her an idea of the damage that this has done to my kids & family. It probably doesn't matter to her, but I know it didn't feel good.

I appreciate all of your support and help. Thanks for caring about me enough to ask "What the Hell Are You Thinking?" Muchos Gracias...wink


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option