Mdoodles, The less you see him, the better you will feel, I am almost totally convinced of that. Sure hes convinced hes fine right now... see what he thinks of himself in a year or so.
My thing was checking H's Myspace and Facebook pages. My heart would pound as the page was loading and I hated feeling that way. So I stopped. I havent checked his page in months and it feels great. I think that its really important for you to remember that hes not fine. He is making choices that will haunt him for a long, long time.
