Thanks everyone! Well, my wife got my daughter all worked up about going out for my birthday so I went and had a good time. My wife told me yesterday evening that she for some reason cannot file the divorce paperwork and that she wants to work on our marriage. She said she didn't want to get into details on my birthday but would like to talk about it this weekend. Ok, that sounds pretty good to me but it's weird because I'm still not emotionally investing into this until I see some action. I am still continuing with my investigation though. We'll see what happens. And no, staying gone till Oct is not an acceptable answer.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!