I read your texts and you're right, I am still trying to please my wife, pursue her and look for appeasement. I must drop the rope withh immediate effect as I know as PM said I am only useful to her when she needs something. My whole mindset is set on her - where is she, what is she doing, who is she with. I must stop this as it is really self destructive to me, it also is incredibly hard to move forward thinking about her all the time.
I am going to assist her with removing an old carpet from the marital home as I had agreed previously, but I am going to tell her that after that I am only going to assist with the children...period. I am setting that as a boundary, ideally I would like to cut back on physically seeing her when I pick up or drop off the children, but unfortunately I have no other option.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
