FF: I don't know exactly what you are going through but can understand the sentiment. My H walked away too, but we did not have children together. There were, however, my children he also walked away from. D13 still asks about him. When I decided to relocate back east, her first question was whether or not H was coming with us.
Although it is not the same, it is a bit similar. I don't think the WAS really thinks about the kids they are leaving behind because we are the responsible parent, and they feel worthless. Now, this is not an excuse. To walk away from one's children is wrong, and I don't care if the person is in a major MLC. It is different for me because H doesn't really have any ties to D13, but I have still seen the heartbreak it has caused her. I can't imagine what it must be like for your children.
I think you just have to keep in mind that the children will need you most of all right now. Someday, he will regret his decision, and HE will have to face that.
(((Hugs)))
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
