Maybe I'm wrong but I don't think dating would make you any happier, maybe for very short-term, but eventually, no. I always think what kind of person would date married people; the kind of person that would date you is an OP. I don't think that's a good start for a healthy R. I think you need to end this R first before dating, b/c let's face it you are not completely over your H, are you??? You need to detach, focus on GALing, and not let him eat cake anymore... Karen
