Ali, please stop bringing Helen into the middle of it. Let's say for argument ask that this was a totally new guy. You knew that he had been with several women before you but he is with you now. do you really stop and bring everyone of those women with you into this R? NO! So don't do it now. You were apart and he dated someone in between your times together. Period. You will talk about why he left etc. later when you are both ready but for now drop her from your thoughts.
You are doing well otherwise. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory