I'm glad to see you are making progress. It is a shame the path that he has chosen to take. It is his loss. If you can be content in life without needing that around, you are miles on your way to recovery. Perhaps one day he will realize his mistakes and rethink things. But for now, you are doing well it sounds like.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...