well, i just dont know what to say or what to tell u to do.

werent u asking the other day about how to file for support?

can u use something like that? or can u make the deadline in your head and if u dont like what u see, file for the support?

can u tell him something about what u are expecting and let him know u have looked into the spousal support because things cannot continue like this?

maybe just plant those seeds into his head, let him think u are looking to move on in a way?

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09