So since you guys think I shouldn't give him a deadline to keep his word, any suggestions how I should communicate to H that I want no NEED him to keep his word?
Truth be told I don't want him to do this because I have pushed it, we have enough of that history, I want him to do this on his own. I really do. Should I tell him that? I want him to keep his word and that is proof that he will keep his word when he comes back to me.