I had a really nice conversation on the phone with my W this morning. In fact, we talked for a good 45 minutes. I came away from it feeling really refreshed. We talked mainly about Wee Man and his non-stop developments but we also gossiped about other people a lot. At one point the subject came up of two of my female friends. My W asked if I saw a lot of them. I was honest about it but never went in to any details.
I was going to go and visit Wee Man today but my W told me she was going to her parents house for a bit of a party they're having. It's for all those who are going to Bulgaria in July on the big family holiday and for those who have had to pull out. Turn's out my W's folks can't go anymore either as my FIL got a promotion at work and they wouldn't hounour his holidays when he took the job. The only person who was initially going and isn't invited to the party is little old me! I do feel a bit left out but I'm not naive enough to believe I ever would have been invited.
Turns out I made a mistake in my calculations about my W's birthday/father's day. It's her weekend with Wee Man so she'll not be heading out on the Saturday night. That may make asking her to lunch a bit easier. After all, what have I got to lose? It's got to be worth a try.
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.