Thanks Snodderly.
I am terrible at expressing what I want to say/ask sometimes.
I did read and I read alot still. My memory isnt what it use to be...honestly I cant remember anything anymore. I really need to get it checked probably. I just think its all I been through.
What I was trying to say is, I heard somewhere that the ow/gf slows the progress down. Thats really what I was trying to ask.
I know its part of the progress but someone once said that it makes their journey slower.
AND, I dont think you are being harsh at all.
By the way, do you know how to list all my threads? I would like to so I can go back and read some of what I wrote, when I first started asking questions.


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M:42
H:40
S:18
M:20yrs/together 21yrs
Bomb:9/08 ILYBNILWY
Sep:9/18/08 "ow" :25
Filed:11/18/08
D:12/8/08
M:Different 26 yr. old 7/09.
Newborn 4/10