One of our close friends mother died on Thursday and I sent my wife a text asking her if she had purchased a condolence card. She rang and told me "I have but we are not an item anymore so I did not put your name on the card".

I was hurt by this and ended the conversation. Did this look like pursing, as in hindsight it probably does, though my intention was a 180 in anticipating buying a card when in the past I would not have done?


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years