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Re: You'll never see me fall from grace blindsided1 #1775301 05/30/09 06:46 AM
Joined: May 2009 Posts: 126 Canberra, Australia F FightingFit Member
FightingFit Member F Joined: May 2009 Posts: 126 Canberra, Australia	I just dont think it does your headspace any good to 'chat' with an OP about anything, other than say, ONE talk, just to ascertain whats going on. ie if your partner denies an affair you have a right to ASK, and get the truth, from the OP. but other than that conversation, I think all others are useless. I only ever spoke to the OW once and it was very damaging to my psyche and I just cannot recommend it. I know very well OW will be very hurt and OW will one day have a lot she wishes she could say to me (beleive me she will, shes my kids COUSIN.) but guess what. Im not gonna listen. I do not CARE if she finally regrets her actions in 10 years. LIVE WITH IT forgivness is v imporant, but it neednt be done to THEM so THEY get satisfaction and a feeling of walking scott free from what they did. let them eat cake! forgive inside yourself but never express to THEM. they dont deserve it at ALL. ive spoken at length about this with my kids too bc I know OW might try to talk to THEM one day (its not like shes much older.) and I said to them the same thing: DONT listen to her. shes done ENOUGH damage. She can never apologise enough so dont even give her the chance. let her LIVE with this now, her and her family. WORDS arent going to change the past or present... in fact I truly think talking to them makes it so much worse bc you realise what an IDIOT they are for the most part and you DO feel sorry for them which makes you feel even DIRTIER on the cheating spouse. considering when kids are involved thats not exactly healthy and as pup so right points out, very DRAMA filled. its best to continue to see them as a shadow and never let that shadow become too REAL to you... bc you dont need her thoughts and feelings muddying already turmoiled waters prayers to all and blessings... every day is closer to peace xoxoxo When you're down to nothing, God is up to something.

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You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/12/09 07:16 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	03/12/09 07:38 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/12/09 07:47 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	03/12/09 08:01 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	03/12/09 09:01 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	03/18/09 08:49 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/19/09 08:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	03/19/09 08:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/19/09 08:59 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	03/19/09 09:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/20/09 01:50 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	03/20/09 02:31 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/20/09 05:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Beans	03/20/09 07:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/20/09 07:50 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Beans	03/20/09 08:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	03/20/09 08:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	03/20/09 11:37 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/22/09 04:12 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	bluerain	03/22/09 08:48 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	03/24/09 08:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	03/30/09 05:38 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/30/09 11:57 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	03/31/09 11:42 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	StrgMarvelousWmn	04/01/09 01:05 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	04/01/09 02:25 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/01/09 07:22 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/01/09 07:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	04/01/09 08:56 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	04/01/09 09:16 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/01/09 09:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/01/09 10:23 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/01/09 10:32 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/02/09 05:24 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	marriedCrazy	04/02/09 11:43 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	lost_in_space	04/02/09 12:46 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	04/02/09 01:23 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/02/09 01:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	04/02/09 01:48 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	04/02/09 02:19 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	StrgMarvelousWmn	04/02/09 02:36 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/02/09 04:06 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/02/09 05:01 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	StrgMarvelousWmn	04/02/09 05:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/02/09 05:18 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/02/09 05:59 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/02/09 07:58 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/02/09 08:20 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/03/09 11:29 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	04/04/09 12:40 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/15/09 06:11 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/15/09 01:09 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/15/09 05:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/15/09 05:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/15/09 08:10 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/18/09 06:03 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/18/09 06:54 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	lost_in_space	04/18/09 07:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	bluerain	04/18/09 07:07 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/19/09 03:37 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/19/09 03:51 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/19/09 06:09 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/19/09 06:52 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	bluerain	04/19/09 07:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	04/20/09 02:52 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/20/09 12:23 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/20/09 05:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/20/09 05:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	04/20/09 06:35 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/20/09 07:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/20/09 11:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/21/09 12:25 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	04/21/09 03:36 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/21/09 04:45 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/21/09 04:51 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Babygirl	04/21/09 06:08 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/21/09 07:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/21/09 07:19 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Babygirl	04/21/09 07:23 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/21/09 07:34 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/21/09 09:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	04/23/09 11:32 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	04/23/09 11:53 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/24/09 02:11 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/24/09 03:41 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	04/28/09 10:45 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	04/29/09 02:08 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/07/09 07:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/07/09 10:00 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	05/08/09 01:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/08/09 04:16 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	05/10/09 04:57 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/10/09 08:09 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/12/09 01:00 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/13/09 10:20 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/14/09 07:15 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sara	05/14/09 07:50 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Babygirl	05/14/09 07:54 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/14/09 08:30 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	05/14/09 10:20 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	05/15/09 01:36 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	girlfromipanema	05/15/09 08:38 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/18/09 05:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/18/09 07:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/18/09 09:42 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/20/09 04:41 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	05/20/09 04:57 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/20/09 06:01 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Babygirl	05/20/09 06:13 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/21/09 03:40 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	05/21/09 10:43 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/21/09 11:08 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	girlfromipanema	05/22/09 12:14 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/22/09 01:11 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/22/09 06:29 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	05/23/09 12:24 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/28/09 11:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/29/09 09:29 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	FightingFit	05/29/09 10:39 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	FightingFit	05/29/09 10:56 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	05/29/09 12:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/29/09 09:11 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/29/09 09:12 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/29/09 09:13 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/29/09 09:48 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	05/29/09 09:48 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	FightingFit	05/30/09 06:46 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	GoingForward	05/30/09 08:07 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	05/30/09 12:42 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	05/30/09 04:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	05/30/09 07:32 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	05/31/09 12:35 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/04/09 08:03 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/05/09 06:33 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	FightingFit	06/05/09 10:37 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/05/09 12:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/05/09 01:29 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/05/09 04:18 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	06/05/09 04:35 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Exhausted67	06/05/09 09:03 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/09/09 05:33 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/09/09 05:42 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/09/09 05:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/09/09 06:27 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	06/09/09 09:51 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/10/09 04:35 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sara	06/11/09 05:41 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/12/09 06:13 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/12/09 01:21 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/14/09 05:16 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/15/09 05:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/15/09 05:49 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/15/09 08:08 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	06/15/09 08:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/15/09 09:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/15/09 10:53 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/17/09 03:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/17/09 06:06 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	fightingirish	06/17/09 06:19 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/17/09 08:21 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/17/09 09:54 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/17/09 11:49 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/18/09 12:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	06/22/09 09:21 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	06/24/09 11:20 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	06/25/09 02:36 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/25/09 02:53 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	06/25/09 03:37 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/26/09 03:22 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	faithisbelieving	06/26/09 03:06 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/26/09 05:24 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	06/30/09 06:43 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	06/30/09 09:33 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	07/13/09 08:14 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	07/13/09 08:22 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	07/13/09 09:25 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	07/13/09 09:46 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	07/19/09 03:47 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	07/19/09 08:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	07/20/09 09:55 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	blindsided1	07/30/09 07:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	07/30/09 08:58 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	07/31/09 02:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	07/31/09 09:11 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	08/17/09 03:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	08/29/09 12:36 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	08/29/09 06:24 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	08/31/09 09:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 05:07 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	09/03/09 05:19 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 05:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	09/03/09 06:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 06:09 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	09/03/09 06:13 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	09/03/09 06:16 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 06:45 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	09/03/09 06:57 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/03/09 07:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	09/04/09 12:01 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	09/04/09 04:46 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	09/10/09 03:18 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	vickyd	09/10/09 02:02 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	09/10/09 02:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	09/21/09 11:26 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	12/26/09 06:50 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	12/28/09 05:11 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	12/29/09 09:17 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	01/18/10 07:13 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	01/19/10 01:39 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	01/20/10 07:14 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	chatterbug	01/20/10 11:50 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	whatdidido	01/20/10 03:10 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	01/20/10 07:25 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	06/18/10 05:07 AM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	06/21/10 05:14 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/21/10 06:05 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Sugar and Spice	11/04/10 06:04 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	MichelleLT	11/04/10 06:31 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	sgctxok	11/08/10 05:51 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	09/03/09 06:14 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	karen43	07/13/09 09:44 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	ernest88	06/25/09 04:18 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	Puppy Dog Tails	06/25/09 05:41 PM
Re: You'll never see me fall from grace	kat727	04/02/09 05:29 PM

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