I have read your input and it is really so true about what I know about my EX. The problem for me is she is not hiding anything and has openly allowed people she works with to "help" her find a new guy. So far that is all she has found guys that want one thing... then there gone! She wont talk to me except for little things and really doesnt contact me much at all. I have tried it all NC moving things out of the house but to no avail! I have decided to call it off completly and may tell her the same thing your H did. She has also let the kids and her family get into it also and has made me out to be all bad... I have had enough and I will be moving out soon... I am not doing this as an LRT because she openly has talked OP/OM right in front of me.. no guilt what so ever... It is hard to believe what she is doing and is not even like a stranger more like a hating machine... Thanks for the insight...
Me 40 waw 39 Never formally M Common law SD 16 SS 13 Together 9 yrs bomb 10/2/08 She started dating 11/08 Started P/A 01/09 Contiunes to call R over