My friend sent me this email and it was just so uplifting:
You know, dude... it's okay to just feel it. You can try to be upbeat, but it's okay to take the time to grieve a little. Even cry, as "unmanly" as it sounds. So rent a movie (may I suggest "Band of Brothers"), get a bottle of wine and hang out by yourself and grieve a bit. Then keep workin' at it. She'll come around. Trust me... you're becoming an assertive, confident leader and that will look very attractive... it's natural.
Her being "analytical" is just a way of defending her decisions. Don't take in personal.
Just don't give up. There's a different between grieving a loss and giving up. Grief is how a healthy person deals with hurt, Giving Up is the excuse we give ourselves to get over the hurt. Don't give up. And make no mistake... the Creator is invested in your experience. He made you the way you are for a reason.
OD--
WOW!! This is powerful and something many newcomers need to see. Heck, I have been here over a year and I needed to see it!
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
