MY XH also left everything in the house except a Bagful of clothes
I boxed up about 2 large boxes of clothes and shoes and put them in garage
he left jackets and all his tools
he would sometimes take an item like his bicycle or his xbox
but mostly he just left it all
I have noticed he has bought some new clothes and those boxes still sit untouched in garage
Now it is 2 year and a few months post bomb
I see my XH in the crises
he is everything that he wasnt
he is in debt( protect your finances)
he is ignoring the credit card companies when they call
he alsmost broke our business ( I saved it ) and it is thriving now..we have paid almost everything off that he didnt
and Snodderly is right
Not to promote D
I waited and stood for 2 years..but im glad our D is over H filed after I told him too
and it was the right thing for us at the time it would have been the ONLY way I could have saved and kept our business
now I am free.. most all the struggle are in the past
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow