I so needed to read this right now. DH has decided (after spending the weekend with ow) that we need a visitation schedule. He has brought it up twice since Wednesday. I am fairly certain that she is freaking out about him being here all the time. Lets be honest, its been over 18 months for them and she is not seeing any movement to something permanent and at 50, she ain't no spring chicken.
I told him that was fine, he could have one day a week and every other weekend. I did ask if we could wait on it until the kids were done with school in three weeks and he agreed. I also told him I would draft an agreement and get it signed and notarized, I expected the same from him. In addition, I told him that there would be clauses in it, that if not adhered to, would result in repercussions. He did not ask what they were but I am sure he knows they have to do with the OW and exposing the kids to her and their relationship.
I am moving forward and he will be in for a huge surprise when he has to watch it happen from the sidelines.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
