BH, what I want to know is how can they go on with their journey if they are living with another woman/man? My xh seems to be happy with his life. He must be, he has given up everything he loved for her. How can he see the problem he has living this way with her? I may have asked this before, so forgive me if I am repeating myself. I dont know how to look up my old threads. I would love to list them all but dont know how.