That depends on how good your GAL is and if your in the midst of a custody battle. In my case it is huge since he was a family friend and counselor to my D15 who does not see her mom. Its all based on your circumstance.

Ian

M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09