Guys I would love to play video games or watch a movie with my son, but he has never been one to interact with me. He always did manly things with his father. His father was his "Hero". I dont grill my son about anything, I very seldom ask him about his plans with his dad. I do that every now and then, hoping he will want to go spend time with his dad. I have no idea, if his dad even asks him to, but I wish he would get out of the house. I have, in the past begged my son to do something with me, go out to eat or anything. He just doesnt want to, so I let him be. Yes I do think we both need ic but that aint gonna happen, he is too much like his father in that aspect, he, in his opinion, doesnt need anybody to tell him how to think or live his life.
Kerry and Brave, I sometimes wish I could close that door forever with my xh. I wish I didnt still care. Maybe it is a guy thing about not wanting to talk to xh, but maybe its the guys that have been dumped on and walked away from. Kerry you are dating still? That helps alot, I would imagine, for you to close the door. Brave, same with you, if you have someone else, of course its easier. I, on the other hand, have not been out with anyone. I have talked to some guys, but either they are sep, NOT DIVORCED, or they are after one thing...in my opinion. NOT HAPPENING WITH ME. I dont want to be alone, but nothing has come my way. Plus everyone says I am NOT ready, and maybe I'm not.
Hugs!
I do have someone else, but even if I didn't, I wouldn't have anything to do with her. After all she has put me through, I have too much pride in myself to ever have anything to do with her in anyway. I guess maybe that is a guy thing! LOL
