Thank you all so much for your kind words. I drank a glass of wine from my Lolita Divorce glass and had dinner with my girlfriend.

This is my first weekend in 22 yrs to be single and no kids and I don't know what to do.

My xH said that a few months back that we weren't friends. How can you be friends with someone that you never communicate with?

He said that he and OW are great friends, they laugh, hangout together and have a good time. Well I guess so, he lives with her and sees her all the time. He says what great friends they are but never that he loves her.