Sugar - step very carefully here. Take the conversation for what it was and dont compare notes anymore. IF you want to save your M (and your H could be a complete piece of crap - who knows) but, if you are in this to save your M...put your armor back on. OW is going to fight for him especially now that she has some intel on your R with H from YOU!. Just be careful sweetie. As decent as the OW may seem....she hurt you, she didn't and doesn't care about you. OW in my sitch is living with my H, has a baby with him and two kids by some other guy- she's never been married...just drops babies all over the place. I know that her son, is my daughter's brother. Someday...I'll deal with this and hopefully welcome him into our home as her brother. I have told H that. But, THAT woman is not welcome in my life. She will have to be part of K's.....maybe, if they last that long. I'll deal with K and her relationship with OW when the time comes. But, as far as I am concerned OW doesn't exist in my happy world.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him