Fire's burning out...just smoldering

[blindsided1]

Well looks like we're back up. So, I hadn't heard from H regarding his visitation tonight. He wanted to switch from every other weekend to every Friday through June. Yesterday afternoon, I texted him and just said that I was double checking that he would have K tonight....no reply. 2 hours later
Me: "Helllloooo? McFly? Can you please confirm that you are taking K tomorrow night"
H: Can't have work on sat early sorry
Me: Next time ca u let me know rt away so my plans dont get messed up. Im HAPPY 2 have the xtra time with her
H: just found out today sorry ur plans got screwd up
Me: Jst next time pls dont wait 4 me 2 asku. jst tell me. I dont mind keeping her. I jst dont appreciate the last min stuff. Its time you lose with her. Doesn't affect me. And, dont feel bad, my plans arent ruined. I found a sitter. No worris

Yes, yes..I know. I played a bit of the guilt card. Why? Because I know he is lying about working. I already know he decided to go to some party with OW instead of having his daughter. Its the idea that he lied about it. If he wanted to switch Fri for Sat...no problem. But he didnt. He just doesn't want her. So he wont see her for two weeks. My Mom told me this was going to happen...that the novelty would wear off and he wouldn't want her as often. And, to think, he used to scream obscenities at me because he said that I was keeping his daughter from him. That he would see her everyday, if he could. Well? He can. He isn't!!!

Loser. Oh, and I don't have a babysitter. I cancelled my plans. I'm fine with that. It's part of being a parent. There are going to be times when your plans have to be cancelled. It's more time for me to have with my daughter. I just told him that because my Mom thinks he gets some kind of joy out of ruining things for me.

So, I don't anticipate seeing or hearing frm him until next Friday. IF he decides he wants her on his Friday, or not.