FF and Puppy, I am well aware of the fact that this woman is no friend to my M and I understand and agree with everything that you posted. I guess what I was trying to get across was that it was a good conversation for me because it cleared up some things in my mind. I also know that it drove home the point for both of us, what a selfish person H truly is.
We are not going to be BFFs or anything remotely "Outer Limits" like that, drunk yes...in need of a helmet, no.
The only drama surrounding it was him trying to wiggle out of the situation he has created and not being able to lie his way out of it. The cats out of the bag, so to speak.
Thats all I was trying to get across. Did some of it hurt? Sure it did, but it was a healing kind of hurt. A lot of my assumptions/imagination about there R were put to rest. It was a huge step forward for me, as well as her I think.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
