antlers....I admire you..for accepting this and recognizing it. You..and I...and song..and others....are lucky enough for having the ability to look inward and SEE THIS.

Still, life is a lesson. You..and song...did NOT fail. You've learned. I have my regrets as well..about attitudes, actions, etc. We have better tools now. It behooves you..us all...to learn and NOT look back in a defeatist attitude or a feeling of failure. THAT..we must do as men. It is ONLY in doing so that one lays fertile ground IF our WAW's or even divorced S's...decide to come back. In most cases, they do not.

Don't forget antlers...and I repeat. There is a choice to forgive and heal...a choice to stay married and honor a promise...a choice to listen and believe.....

Many have posted to me over and over, and, it's true...it was HER CHOICE.

Stay strong.
FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;