I never said you are a wuss and you know I don't think that of you at all. You are one of the toughest men I know.
My post was a list of "what if's" as I was thinking out loud about different concepts.
I'm not really sure how this is affecting your kids. I was thinking out loud and wondering IF she does these things because she CAN. Hence the reason I ask what the Alpha Male thing would be to do. And I know you and I have the same definition for Alpha Male.
And honestly, I am not sure which is worse for the kids. Having their mother be out of control to the extent that they can't be sure if they will see their dad, or reigning her in so they have more predictability.
I think 25yearsmlc has the best suggestions. Stand up to her with witnesses. Scare her with legal action. I think it's time for hardball.
As far as the phone, she would just take it away from him.
Stay tough. You are a great man. And DO NOT talk about yourself as if you are a Wuss. You are far from that.
