Moving merrily down the tunnel

[kjensen]

Hi D,
You're doing great! It is definitely a rollercoaster ride-one minute at the bottom the next up top..I think as long as you show your wife your calmness/friendliness..I think things will slowly continue to improve.

Just consider my situation: Asking for Divorce on Monday, Wednesday OW breaks up with him, Friday he's spending the night with me and talking about moving back. Last night- 1.5 weeks later from asking for divorce(which he said was the worst day of his life), he is moving back with me and the kids and getting us an appointment for marital counseling. Talk about a wild ride!

H said what kept him 'in the game' was my friendship and support. Whenever he couldn't find someone to trust he would come to me, whenever he didn't have support he would come to me..and he realized this on his own!

I hope you have a great weekend.. My thread is locked on the MLC forum, so you may find me in the Piecing forum..hoping its not premature.. :-)