Her: I will go to the house today and let the dogs out. Her: after I stop at bank Me: ok Her: I don't know how much your bill is, but will $100 make the min. payment covered? Me: thank you for washing the blanket. It was cold last night and needed it. Me: not sure Me: about the min payment but 100 will be fine Me: thanks Her: your welcome. Her: i like it much better when we get along, instead of tension and fighting. (Yeah. Less GUILT for HER) Her: I know things are tough, bu I reall don't want us to hate eachother. (THEN YOU SHOULDNT HAVE HAD AN AFFAIR AND BETRAYED MY TRUST. NOT PRODUCTIVE BUT TRUE) Me: me to Her: of course I can only control 1/2 of that. (TRUE) Her: I will never hate you......but you will prob. ) seems lately (that you cannot stand me). (SEE ABOVE) Her: it is okay for now, I kinda expect it, and I guess you have to go through it, I did. (YAA THINK!!!)Me: I'm sorry you feel that way Me: I dont hate you (JUST WAIT! YOU WILL EVENTUALLY LET IT GO THOUGH) Her: hopefully you will come out the other side of that knowing that i love our girls so much, would NEVER do anything to hurt them, or put them at risk in anyway. Her: In all of my life---their happiness is way more important than even my own. (YEAH. RIGHT. I LOVE THIS ONE. GROWING UP IN 2 HOMES IS SO MUCH BETTER. WELL AT LEAST THEY WILL HAVE YOU AS A MORAL AND ETHICAL ROLE MODEL. CAN U TELL IM STILL BITTER) Her: and I would like you to be happy too. (AS LONG AS SHE IS... HELPS WITH THE GUILT)Me: I have to get back to work Her: k Me: My mom will be at the house tomorrow morning. I should be there by 10 but if you have plans she will be there to take the kids for me until I get back. Me: bye Her: bye
Sorry for the hijack. It just brought back a lot of painful memories. The bottom line is that any WAS that does this is being selfish and will do anything to justify what they WANT. Hopefully, some day she will be WILLING to do the WORK that you are NOW DOING.
