You are right in that I didn't want him here if he was involved with his GF. Why? Because that R is a dysfunctional mess and is contributing to his misery. The man needs alone time to figure himself out. He can't do that while she is involved. Now, if he worked out his issues and then went back to her, more power to him. I just hate to see the spinning continue in perpetuity. Sad really, but I know there is nothing I or anyone else can do for him.
my question is.."why does all that matter to you?"
I guess I wonder why you try to figure out what he needs to do to find himself??
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I just hate to see the spinning continue in perpetuity.
here's where I fail to understand sometimes....I mean..I think they should spin, I think they should spin their azzzzezz's off..I think they should get some of what they gave us...not out of spite, or meaness or bitterness..but just for the hell of it..
I think they should get some F'in Karma...batchitt crazy or not..
