Unfortunately we got into it last night. I was going to be nice and bring him his plate of food downstairs. He was talking loudly and I could hear him on the phone. I casually said who were you talking to? (his sister) and he got super defensive. Anyway we both are still angry about what was said in the counseling session.
I left and went to my friend's house for awhile. When I got back I went downstairs to apologize. We talked a little bit and I honestly sat back and saw his point about one thing he was upset about and how it may have come across differently than I intended so I apologized for that. I asked for a hug which was stupid! He slept downstairs again.
I'm just tired of the fact that he gets to act whatever way he wants and the rest of us just have to take it!
He's going to the lake this weekend to see if the air conditioning was fixed and to pick up his four-wheeler from his friend's farm. It's probably for the best. I have plans to take my friend out to dinner for her birthday.
I just really need to stick to doing my own thing and staying out of his way. It's such a struggle! I'm trying not to lose my hope but this is just wearing me out!