Thank you BM. I know that his preference is to drive in with me and be with his team throughout. To tell him to 'tell' his mom that would be pressure on him.

HOWEVER, I WILL teach him to make his feelings known and not to have fear expressing himself. THAT..is an issue now. Pardon my language but I think he is being p-whipped..ordered around...etc.

I am also now considering getting him a cell phone. Although it works both ways, I want him to feel free to call me whenever he wants. This is going to infuriate her.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;