Hey everyone, thanks ONCE again for your advice. I look forward almost everyday to what you all have to say, so please keep posting to me until I am out of the eye of the storm.lol

Yes T2SP I agree with you alot.
My xh also moved in his new gf around 2 months.
Although it was surprising, because he was saying "her time was almost up". He said stuff like that alot, then he started saying, if you are with someone long enough they start to grow on you.
As far as dating, I went out to eat with an old boyfriend, now friend, and felt soooo quilty, like I was cheating...so yeah, I know what you mean.
My son is the type of child that will hide his real feeling toward his dad to be close to him. This is because his dad was his hero growing up...I think anyway.
His dad was always involved with son, fishing, hunting, fire dept, police dept. My son was fassinated by his dad.
He sees that is dad has abandoned me and is soooo afraid he will get upset and stop talking to him also. He use to say and sometimes still does, mom just dont make dad mad or he will stop calling me. So sad if you ask me. I know my son is scared. No child should ever feel that they might lose their parent while their parents are living.


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M:42
H:40
S:18
M:20yrs/together 21yrs
Bomb:9/08 ILYBNILWY
Sep:9/18/08 "ow" :25
Filed:11/18/08
D:12/8/08
M:Different 26 yr. old 7/09.
Newborn 4/10