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Should I leave her a heart-felt letter telling what I have learned about myself and our relationship? I have not done that yet but I need her to know.


Let her know by your actions.
Read up on the 5 Love Languages, His Needs Her Needs, read here. Keep posting, post on others threads to make "friends." Practice the DB techniques and report back on what you are doing. Learn to listen, communicate and validate. Be patient, understanding and loving.
You can handle it.
Cheers
Coach


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.