I get what you're saying Kassie but being friends doing our own thing can only last so long. I just don't get how we can talk have fun get along great and at the same time she wants nothing to do with our M...It's been almost two years I'm just not sure how much longer I want to live like this. IF I saw some hope or movement on her part then sure but I don't really see it.
I'll never be the one to file but once she does I won't slow it down either.
That is why I think you need to give yourself a deadline. You have been S for two years. Now, if you were S and she says lets go to MC, dates, work on our M and work towards living together again that would be different. Two years is alot longer than 3, 6 or even 9 months. At this rate your wife may go on like this forever...maybe not. I would hate to see you wait for years then have her decide she doesn't want the M and you have wasted a long time in limbo. You will be very angry and resentful.
I may have missed this...but have you really sat down with her lately and had a heart to heart on what the future holds?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
