To Frank....I understand totally what you posted. My choices were clear...'abduct him'....or file a motion so that I could drive him to the game.

I think the answer is clear here...as much as it hurts. I think the 'alpha male' thing here is to NOT hurt your son.
Originally Posted By: N.U.T.S.

I will decide what is best for my children and no one will deter me from doing so


Yes Frank..it feels emasculating again. She pulled a good one. But...I am trying to teach S8 to 'make his feelings known'. Although ultimately, his parents make the decisions, S8 needs to come out from underneath now and be able to express himself..and that includes towards ME too.

This is not a matter of wussing out..but deciding what is best for him. Unless she is lying to me, I will have him on the field. Is driving him in critical? No...I think not. Does it hurt me in a way? Yes. 'Should he be with me?' On paper, yes.

She will get a copy of my response and cross motion. As you know Frank, it is factual and heavy hitting. She will have to respond.

If others feel that this thinking was wrong, I would appreciate your input.

FIB


Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;