Thanks puppy, just wanted to make sure I wasn't misunderstanding. You may very well be right. For the past 4 months I've been trying those tactics, and it hasn't seemed to help much. He'll be moving soon, and perhaps then I should "go dark". Would be very difficult to do right now with him still here. Thanks for your comments.
Me:42 H:47 T:11 yrs M:5 1/2 yrs Death of my step daughter in July 2008 He began relationship with OW in August 2008 H will be moving out in next couple of weeks
