So, my H is flaking out of visitation with kids, busy working again. So again, I cannot plan my own schedule but forever waiting to see what he is up to so that I can plan on doing my own thing.

I am getting tired of this.

It's getting so OLD.

It was bearable when we were married. But to have to be 'on call' just in case he can't make it when we are S is not fun. I need a life too!

So this just tells me, moving home is a good idea. At least I know I have my kids most of the time and is not on anyone's call list.


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'